About Me
It’s never really been easy to write about myself, or maybe I am too modest about what I know is true. Yes I am many colors of a single vine, after reading my interests I guess u will be thinking one thing or maybe a few things about me: pervert, freak, player, jerk, and many other harsh words I don’t want to believe u already thought of in a few minutes. But hold up! wait a second, that’s exactly the place I wanted to lead you to though and that’s gives light to one of my most important hobbies, studying people with enough attention and precision to find out detail that remains hidden from the surface. After all the finest metals like gold can only be retrieved through heat .yes, people have never ceased to be a wonderful experience for me. and of course studying me has never come easy too, cos like nature's constantly changing trends I know how to adapt change and move on, I don’t have four seasons, but I know when to change, be the gentleman, be the fun man of the party, the intellectual, the source of inspiration, of course a shoulder to cry on, study buddy, too many things, maximizing what it means to be human, exploring the limitless strength that lies within us. What do u want? I have goals, I have dreams, I have places I crave to go, it’s a destination to which I keep walking, I don’t have dreams of my goals but I have goals of a dream. I am what you call self-realized, the greatest form of spirituality which can exist for any one I believe, instead of just being Christian I prefer “Christ- In- Tuneness��? , hold dude what exactly is that? It means coming to terms with the grace that allows me to think evil and sin and still live. It makes me wake up to the truth that God is always alive and watching and smiling that we still haven’t realized ourselves to realize that when we sin, we destroy the essence of the beauty that resides within us and not necessarily offend Him. He is patient with us because he realizes that we abuse our gift because we do not know that we possess immortality but constantly seek to remain in tune with our mortality, it is my dream that humanity comes to realize this and with this realization come our season of birth to an immortal truth.
I am rhythm, cos I love music, it is the spice of my life, it soothes and seasons me. In liking many kinds of music, comes different forms of emotions, silent ones, u know that really good feeling you get when u listen to such a good tune, rare compatibility, simply truth! You read this far, definitely the kind of person I would like to talk to, so holla@ WRITTEN BY VIVI MY EVIL FRIEND LOL!
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Favorite Music
ISLEY BROTHERS, EARTH WIND AND FIRE,THE TEMPTATIONS, K.C. AND THE SUNSHINE BAND
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Favorite Movies
GLADITOR, JULIUS CAESAR,TROY,THE ROCK, THE PRESTIGE, BEN HUR, POLICE ACADEMY SERIES, THE PAINTED VEIL.
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Favorite TV Shows
A-TEAM, ROME, X-FILES, DIFFERENT STROKES
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Favorite Books
WINDMILLS OF THE GODS(SIDNEY SHELDON),THE SUM OF ALL FEARS(TOM CLANCY),INTENSITY(DEAN KOONTZ).
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Favorite Quote
SILENCE COULD BE DEAFENING
To make your dreams come true, you must first wake up."
Those who conquer others have power ... but those who conquer themselves know the way."
"it is better to live on the roof, than share a room with a nagging wife"
"Those who lie down with dogs, rise uP WITH FLIES. Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes it is the quiet voice at the end of the night saying, 'I will try again tomorrow.'"
Sometimes we are too busy trying to get through a closed door that we miss the open window beside it."
"Sex without the sizzle is like lemonade without the pop; it quenches your thirst, but leaves you feeling flat!"
"Verily the lust for comfort murders the passion of the soul, and then walks grinning in the funeral."
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Stop Trying To 'Save' Africa By Uzodinma Iweala Updated: 07/15/2007
Last fall, shortly after I returned from Nigeria, I was accosted by a perky blond college student whose blue eyes seemed to match the "African" beads around her wrists.
"Save Darfur!" she shouted from behind a table covered with pamphlets urging students to TAKE ACTION NOW! STOP GENOCIDE IN DARFUR!
My aversion to college kids jumping onto fashionable social causes nearly caused me to walk on, but her next shout stopped me.
"Don't you want to help us save Africa?" she yelled.
It seems that these days, wracked by guilt at the humanitarian crisis it has created in the Middle East, the West has turned to Africa for redemption. Idealistic college students, celebrities such as Bob Geldof and politicians such as Tony Blair have all made bringing light to the dark continent their mission. They fly in for internships and fact-finding missions or to pick out children to adopt in much the same way my friends and I in New York take the subway to the pound to adopt stray dogs.
This is the West's new image of itself: a sexy, politically active generation whose preferred means of spreading the word are magazine spreads with celebrities pictured in the foreground, forlorn Africans in the back. Never mind that the stars sent to bring succor to the natives often are, willingly, as emaciated as those they want to help.
Perhaps most interesting is the language used to describe the Africa being saved. For example, the Keep a Child Alive/" I am African" ad campaign features portraits of primarily white, Western celebrities with painted "tribal markings" on their faces above "I AM AFRICAN" in bold letters. Below, smaller print says, "help us stop the dying."
Such campaigns, however well intentioned, promote the stereotype of Africa as a black hole of disease and death. News reports constantly focus on the continent's corrupt leaders, warlords, "tribal" conflicts, child laborers, and women disfigured by abuse and genital mutilation. These descriptions run under headlines like "Can Bono Save Africa?" or "Will Brangelina Save Africa?" The relationship between the West and Africa is no longer based on openly racist beliefs, but such articles are reminiscent of reports from the heyday of European colonialism, when missionaries were sent to Africa to introduce us to education, Jesus Christ and "civilization."
There is no African, myself included, who does not appreciate the help of the wider world, but we do question whether aid is genuine or given in the spirit of affirming one's cultural superiority. My mood is dampened every time I attend a benefit whose host runs through a litany of African disasters before presenting a (usually) wealthy, white person, who often proceeds to list the things he or she has done for the poor, starving Africans. Every time a well-meaning college student speaks of villagers dancing because they were so grateful for her help, I cringe. Every time a Hollywood director shoots a film about Africa that features a Western protagonist, I shake my head -- because Africans, real people though we may be, are used as props in the West's fantasy of itself. And not only do such depictions tend to ignore the West's prominent role in creating many of the unfortunate situations on the continent, they also ignore the incredible work Africans have done and continue to do to fix those problems.
Why do the media frequently refer to African countries as having been "granted independence from their colonial masters," as opposed to having fought and shed blood for their freedom? Why do Angelina Jolie and Bono receive overwhelming attention for their work in Africa while Nwankwo Kanu or Dikembe Mutombo, Africans both, are hardly ever mentioned? How is it that a former mid-level U.S. diplomat receives more attention for his cowboy antics in Sudan than do the numerous African Union countries that have sent food and troops and spent countless hours trying to negotiate a settlement among all parties in that crisis?
Two years ago I worked in a camp for internally displaced people in Nigeria, survivors of an uprising that killed about 1,000 people and displaced 200,000. True to form, the Western media reported on the violence but not on the humanitarian work the state and local governments -- without much international help -- did for the survivors. Social workers spent their time and in many cases their own salaries to care for their compatriots. These are the people saving Africa, and others like them across the continent get no credit for their work.
Last month the Group of Eight industrialized nations and a host of celebrities met in Germany to discuss, among other things, how to save Africa. Before the next such summit, I hope people will realize Africa doesn't want to be saved. Africa wants the world to acknowledge that through fair partnerships with other members of the global community, we ourselves are capable of unprecedented growth.
Uzodinma Iweala is the author of "Beasts of No Nation," a novel about child soldiers.
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